"盲于忙"

原本刚才一直都在忙着准备考试，但突然读到很不能投入和专心。。。所以就看看一下今天的报纸，看到特刊的一篇文章，很吸引我去阅读。。。它的题目为“盲于忙”。。。因为最近真的的确有点忙，很多堆积如山的事情都没做完。。。原以为我可以很悠闲地过最后一个学期，因为我只拿三个科目而已，又没有FINAL YEAR PROJECT…没想到竟然是我最忙的一个学期。。。所以这篇文章还蛮可以形容我最近“忙”的生活。。。（虽然有一个朋友兼学长跟我说过不能用“忙“来形容我们的生活，因为忙=“心亡”。。但我还是不能说服自己说我现在过得很充实。。所以。。。不好意思，朋友。。）

说回这篇文章，我想和大家分享一段我个人觉得还蛮不错的一个段落。。。由于我只想抽出一点点我读书的时间来完成这个部落格。。希望大家见谅。。。

“我们在忙碌工作当儿，记得偶尔也要让自己放慢脚步，仔细的欣赏四周的一切，因为在疲惫的午后小息一会儿，醒来后你的心情会像午后的阳光依样灿烂。。不要过于关注未来所要发生的事情而错过眼前的美妙瞬间。。有时，学会让自己充充电，给自己机会过得更有意义。。

人生只有一回，要好好爱自己，爱你身边的人，

别总是在失去时才懂得珍惜，

别总是在失去时才发现其美丽，

别让自己太忙碌，别让自己变“盲”去。。。。”

看完这篇文章后，其实我之前也曾经看过类式的文章，但往往在现实的生活中我们都在盲目的在忙碌着一些往往我们也不知道我们在忙些什么。。。。或忽略了一些对我们很重要的事情，人。。。最近很多时候都在不段的忙着。。。似乎有着忙不完的任务，所以最近都比较少写部落格（但还是会关心大家所写的部落格，虽然没留下任何评语），很少和朋友联络，希望大家能多多体谅。。。我部落格的时间大概就到此，我的部落格应该会暂停一段时间。。

Strength???

Just now i discussed with my senior Desmond....about Redang trips....because i hope that i can have my graduate trips...that is go pulau redang...so i ask some information about the trip go to pulau redang....since before,i very keen to go pulau redang for trip with my friends....but also can't make it before...really hope that this time i can make it....but i have to confirm my exam schedule 1st because after 4th of May i have to start my internship...hope that my exam can finish earlier and i can go to my dream vacation to having my graduate trip before i enter job surrounding..but now i have start to save money...because this sem really poor and spend many money before....

after we discussed about the redang trip, we got discussed about somethings about his new working place-that is Public bank...because desmond already working at public bank which i also keen to enter this working area...coz i'm majoring in finance and i hope to continue my working and learning in this industry....Public bank is one of the banks which i'm keen to working at there...and he also talked about how he successful enter Public bank thru interview and he also share his experiences with me about his interview process....As my opinion,it's really hard to enter Public bank after desmond sharing his experience with me...but desmond really is a talent in this area-insurans executive...since i got cooperated with him in this past 2-3 years in same society-xia xiang tuan....and he got so many experiences about MC and for him communication skill only a pieces of cake and such a easy job only.....

Affter that,we also got discussed about if got 2 options that is
1) strengthen your strengths or
2) improve your weaknesses
which one will you choose??As my opinion, i'm the person which also improve from my weaknesses before....but never strengthen my strengths also...so i really din't have my strengths also now...Desmond also told me that how to recognized me if i din't have my strengths and i din't really strengthen it??suddenly i just revived that i seems lost my directions before and suddenly i seems like just waked up only....because i really don't want to be such a simple people only....really have to thanks desmond because revived me and let me realized that i have to strengthen my strengths and let people recognized me that i'm which kind of people...thanks ya,desmond....and don't think about that u got say wrongly to me....i really appreciated that got people willing to tell me....

Besides,he also told me that i lack of 企图心 and i don't know how to strive for what i want....really....and i knowed it before....he told me this will be at a disadvantages situation if i enter the working surroundings....because we have to strive to prove our ability infront of our boss and we will easy to bully by colleuges if we are too nice...he told me that we have to strived for our dreams and what we want and what we need....i will try to make it.....and prepared for my future want....

i really learn a lesson from this conversation with desmond although it just spend about 1hour time only....but i really like revived from my dream only....really appreciated to know desmond and ivan...because they two brothers realy helped me in many areas.....

english edition

this is my first time write my blog in english edition.because one of my best friends ask me to write my blog in english to improve my poorly english...but he also laughed me that either my blog really can understand or not...lol...i admit that my english standard really shit...because i am chinese educated since i am primary school and seldom communicated with people in english...tat's y my english so...haha...

all also excuse only....and i lazy to improve my english and not dare speak in front of many people because scared people laugh me...although i promised myself i want to improve my english before i enter USM....but even now my english also reali shit...don't how to compete with other people in this market since i nearly wan to enter this job surrounding....but i seems like din't well prepared myself yet...

recently i almost busying of send my resume and cover letters to finding my internship company...but just realized that how important english in this situations which not so many post to accomodate so many graduates since the economies now so bad...and i have to compete with all of my friends not only good in english but also in other areas....try to imagined that how worry now my feelings...have to find my internship before March but now i just send out my resume and cover letter only....

after internship,really got company want to hired me??or let me continue work at their company??really worry le...and i prefer working at finance industry such as bank or so on...but heard that friends said this industry really required higher standard of english.....but my english.....haiz.....

feelings blur of my future prospects now....

让人生少一点后悔

比利时有一本杂志，把全国60岁以上的老人作为调查对象，提的问题是：“来到这个年龄，你一生中最后悔的是什么呢?”然后列出十几项可能会后悔的事情，让人们选择。

结果，最多老人选择的后悔是年轻时不够努力，以至于事业无成；排名第二的是后悔对子女的教育方法不对；排名第三的是没有好好珍惜自己的伴侣；排名第四的是后悔锻炼身体不足，健康出问题；排名最后的居然是后悔没有赚到更多钱。

这个调查结果有些出乎众人意料。尤其在目前这个看重金钱的年代，每个人的目标仿佛很早就已经互相约好，方向一致全是朝着赚钱这个目标冲去。

赚钱似乎变成是世界上最重要的事。朋友见面，原本的问候是：“最近好吗”、“吃饱了没有”、“孩子怎么样”、“身体可好”，现在变为：“买股票了吗”、“近来在哪里发财”。两个人说了再见，彼此都赶快想办法去赚多一些钱。

赚钱真的是生命中最重要的事情吗?

拼命赚钱，不顾一切，不择手段，也许真的能赚到钱，不过，有人赚到很多钱，却赔上健康和快乐。有的人用前半生来赚钱，后半生就用前半生赚到的钱来买药，换取健康。

本来以为赚了钱，有钱以后，就有一切，包括健康和快乐，不过，要是你认真思考，仔细观察，你就会发现，有钱人同样有许多烦恼，有钱未必代表拥有快乐。生命中有太多金钱买不到的东西，就在你身边的亲情、友情、爱情等都是。

上面提到的那个调查不一定很准确，但却能给芸芸众生提个醒儿，为了不要在年老时拥有太多的后悔，我们除了要花点时间赚钱，还要保留多一点儿时间给生命中更 重要的东西，比如努力提升自己、注重孩子的教育、关心父母和妻子、珍惜眼前拥有的一切、坚持锻炼身体、关心社会、帮助他人等。

你不能左右天气，但你可以改变心情；

你不能改变容貌，但你可以展现笑容；

你不能控制别人，但你可以掌握自己；

你不能预知明天。但你可以利用今天；

你不能样 样胜利，但你可以事事尽力……

当生命的道路走到最后，你为自己填一份生命的调查报告时，你不可能没有后悔，但可以让自己的人生少一点后悔。

天公诞

大年初九拜天公，庆祝天公诞对福建人来说，大年初九天公诞才是真正的新年。 每年的大年初八，大家就会忙碌的准备各式各样的祭品，准备在晚上祭拜天公。

传说中，在唐朝，黄巢的军队曾在新年间从北方到南方（也有人说是宋朝杨宗保，又有人说是唐代开漳圣王陈元光，总之，是传说！），北方军队在遇到服饰与语言不同的福建居民时，由于听到这些居民自称是“狼”（闽南音“人”的读音），而大开杀戒。
　　
面对北方强兵的福建居民，只好纷纷逃到甘蔗园内躲避。一直到北兵弄清楚是怎回事，停止了杀戳。南方的福建人才走出蔗园。据说，侥幸仅存的福建人便把走出蔗园的日子，即正月初九日，用来补过新年，形成了后来的风俗。

在初八晚过后，初九的子时(11pm-1am)，即是祭神时间。这时，信仰天公的家庭都会准备祭品拜天公。
　　
讲究仪式的家庭，会在户外或在户内院子里选择一处没有遮拦、可以直对天际的空间，用两张桌子重叠成高坛，又在两侧各放一枝甘蔗，以便朝望天空祭神。祭神的甘蔗须带叶，以征节节上升甜节节和开枝散叶。

这是我折的金纸，虽然比我妈妈折的难看一点，但还好啦。。。。毕竟我也放了一些诚意下去的。。。好多的祭品，总共有十多样呱。。。这些都是拜天公必需的祭品。。有斋料，水果，糕点等等。。。当然少不了甘蔗。。。


大概凌晨一点钟时，拜祭天公的仪式已经告一段落。。。准备烧金纸的时候了。。。。今年可说是最早拜天公的一年。。。还记得以前，拜天公都是到凌晨三四点才开始的。。。。